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Sean Kelley

Recognition: The Hardest Yet Easiest Thing for Many Leaders to Do

When I think back on my time in the military, I think of it fondly. This is counter intuitive because the Army was not easy, and spending two years in combat zone deployments generally shouldn’t lead to “fond” memories. One of the main reasons I look back on it with positivity is the recognition I received for doing my job. In fact, if I’m ever feeling weak, I can just read some of the awards and accolades I received, and it gives me an instant boost of confidence and inspiration!

What I want for you as a leader reading this, is that you are able to create the same fond memories, confidence and inspiration in the people that work for you. One day when you retire I want the people that chose to work for you to remember how awesome working for you was. I want your people to appreciate you as a leader because of the way you recognized and appreciated them. Recognition will not only help you leave a positive legacy, it will also help you get even better results from each individual on your team.

When my team of coaches and I conduct business cultural assessments, one of the most common complaints we hear from employees is, “They never thank us or tell us what we are doing right.”

When I ask leaders why they don’t recognize, they often say:

1. I never got recognized, and I don’t need recognition.

2. I have a hard time telling people ‘good job’ for doing what I pay them to do.

3. When I recognize people for doing great, they often get worse, so I stopped.

What I want for you in reading this is that you identify how this B.S. (belief system) is holding you back. Let’s unpack each of these!

1. You don’t need recognition.

Who is leadership about, YOU or THEM?

Leadership is about the people you manage, and hopefully choose to lead. When you find out that they were recognized growing up, and as such equate recognition to gratitude and love which motivates them and makes them feel valued, now you have to decide. Option one: Do you manage in your own image, making it about you and avoid recognition because you don’t need it? Option two: Do you lead each individual by adapting your approach to what inspires them? Which way gets you more loyalty, happier employees, and better results?

Choose option 1, you are choosing to manage; choose option 2, you are choosing to lead.

2. You don’t want to recognize people for doing their jobs.

Yes, people are supposed to do their jobs… Then why does the military award and recognize people for doing their jobs?

As human beings, we have a deep-seated need to fit into society. When we know we are accepted as part of the tribe, our brains reward us with hormones that make us feel safe. When you recognize your people, you are letting them know that they are doing right by your tribe. This fulfills one of the most basic human needs: the need to be part of a community. And if a human’s needs are being met by being part of that community, they’re likely to stay in it longer. What does that mean for your company? Employee retention!

3. When I recognize people they seem to get worst.

When you do something flawlessly, the next time you do that same activity, what are the odds you can do it better vs the odds you will do it worse?

In statistics, there is a principle called “regression to the mean.” This mathematical truth applies to performance in this way: when you do something at the bottom 1% of your capability, the next time you do it, you are 99% likely to get better. On the contrary, when you do something at peak performance, the top 1% of your capability, there is a 99% chance that the next time you do it, you get worse. At the end of the day, the more people do something, the more their performance averages out because most instances will be in the middle.

The point is, if someone performs poorly (for them), they are likely to get better regardless of whether you yell at them or not. When someone performs at a high level, whether you recognize them or not, they are likely to get worse. But what if what they performed well was by accident? Meaning that someone’s reasons for success are a blind spot for them. Only through recognition do they have the chance to identify what they did well and potentially duplicate it!

How to Give Proper Recognition:

There are three easy steps to enacting recognition in the most impactful way. First, you must be specific about what they did/and are doing well. Because “Good job” isn’t clear enough. Being specific eliminates all assumptions about what they did well.

Next, share with them how their actions, behaviors, or attitude makes a positive impact on the team, business, and clients. This helps them understand the value they bring and how their success is tied to others.

Finish by telling them what’s in it for them if they continue the behaviors. Since we all operate on the W.I.I.F.M. (What’s in it for me?) this further connects the dots on what they personally get out of doing what’s right.

Here’s an example I recently used with a dealership coaching client. We are helping the dealership launch their service to sales BDC, and the new agent absolutely crushed it her first month.

“Lashae, the way you focused on your phone skills and prospecting efforts to generate 28 service to sales transactions for your dealership was awe-inspiring!

That made a massive positive impact on your dealership’s inventory, giving the sales team more great used cars to sell! You also helped your sales team pick up another $20,000 in commissions, helping the team pay their bills!

If you continue to master the phones while putting forth that level of effort, you will be able to grow this department, add a team under you and become a manager in your dealer group!”

Her response to the message above was, “This month I’m aiming for 40!” The three-step recognition process worked.

Here are the coaching questions you can use to create your own masterful recognition for each person on your team:

1. What specifically did they do well (attitude, actions, behaviors, and results)?

2. How does that impact their team and/or the business?

3. What’s in it for them if they continue doing that?

It’s important to note that if you’re a manager who notices the problems more than the positives, you are NOT broken. I’ll even go as far as to say you’re probably not an evil dictator of a manager, or even a pessimistic jerk! Noticing problems first is just how our human brains work. It’s easier to notice the problems, because our brains are always looking for the danger in our environment to protect us. That being said, every game has both good and bad plays and it’s equally important to recognize the good as it is to correct and coach on the bad.

The benefits of proper recognition are happier, motivated employees that stay on your team longer and duplicate desired attitudes, actions, and behaviors! This type of leadership activity leads to consistent, sustained results. Furthermore, the more things your employees do right as a result of your recognition, the less reactive firefighting you need to do as a manager. So, remember, recognition is a very powerful tool in a leader’s arsenal.

This is a chapter in Sean Kelley’s upcoming book “Inspired Satisfaction – How Leaders Build Winning Business Cultures.” For more information on Sean’s leadership techniques, check out “www.L2coach.com” Seans writing is written by a human, for humans, with no A.I. content.

The Commitment Spectrum and the Power of Coaching Employees on Execution

In the journey towards achieving our goals and realizing our dreams, commitment is the driving force that propels us forward and gets stuff done. It’s the difference between merely thinking about something and taking bold, decisive action. Have you ever left a coaching conversation with one of your people feeling a little uneasy about the end result and their level of commitment? Listening for the nuances in their response can help you gauge this, and with the right coaching strategies you can raise their commitment level. Let’s delve into the commitment spectrum, exploring how individuals progress from contemplation to execution, and why helping our people in embracing a higher level of commitment is the key to success.

The Commitment Spectrum Unveiled

1. I Will Think About… At the initial stage of the commitment spectrum, thoughts are marinating, ideas are brewing, but action is yet to take its first step. This is where many aspirations remain dormant, waiting for a spark to ignite the flame of commitment.

2. I Should… As thoughts evolve into a sense of obligation, the commitment spectrum inches forward. However, “should” is a word often accompanied by hesitation, guilt and external pressures, lacking the internal fire needed for sustained action.

3. I Might… The transition from should to might signals a shift towards considering the possibilities. While this step is encouraging, it’s crucial to recognize that mere contemplation doesn’t translate into tangible progress.

4. I Probably Will… Moving from a passive “might” to a more assertive “probably will” indicates a growing sense of confidence. Yet, this stage is still characterized by uncertainty, and commitment remains fragile.

5. I Need To… Recognizing a need is a significant step towards commitment. It signifies an acknowledgment that the action is essential for personal growth or goal attainment. However, needs alone do not guarantee action and execution.

6. I’ll Try… The introduction of effort comes into play as commitment intensifies. “I’ll try” represents a commitment to action, but the outcome is often influenced by external factors. This stage requires a shift towards internal accountability.

7. I Will… With “I will,” commitment solidifies. This stage marks a conscious decision to act, and the individual begins to take ownership of their journey. The path from here is paved with determination and purpose.

8. I Am Doing It… The pinnacle of the commitment spectrum is reached when intentions transform into actions, and individuals proudly declare, “I am doing it.” This stage embodies unwavering dedication and a mindset geared towards overcoming obstacles and goal achievement.

The Power of Execution at the Peak

Embracing the “I Am Doing It” Mentality: At the apex of the commitment spectrum, individuals possess a unique mindset – one that aligns actions with aspirations. This mentality fosters a powerful sense of self-efficacy, where challenges are viewed as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles.

Overcoming Fear and Doubt: Fear and doubt often lurk in the earlier stages of the commitment spectrum. However, as one progresses towards “I am doing it,” these barriers begin to lose their grip. Confidence builds, and individuals discover an inner strength that propels them forward.

Inspiring Others Through Action: Commitment is contagious. As individuals ascend the commitment spectrum, their actions inspire those around them. The energy and determination they radiate become a catalyst for positive change, creating a ripple effect within their personal and professional spheres.

Transforming Challenges into Opportunities: With a resilient commitment to execution, challenges are no longer roadblocks but stepping stones. Every setback becomes an opportunity to learn, adapt, and refine the approach. The “I am doing it” mentality transforms adversity into a catalyst for growth.

Nurturing Commitment in Others

Leading by Example: For leaders and mentors, embodying commitment sets a powerful example. Demonstrating a steadfast dedication to goals and aspirations creates a culture where commitment is not only valued but expected.

Fostering a Supportive Environment: Creating an environment that encourages individuals to progress along the commitment spectrum requires a supportive culture. Acknowledge efforts, celebrate milestones, and provide guidance when challenges arise. A nurturing environment empowers individuals to embrace higher levels of commitment.

Encouraging Incremental Progress: Recognize that the journey along the commitment spectrum is not always linear. Encourage individuals to take incremental steps, celebrating each advancement. Small victories build confidence and momentum, propelling them towards the pinnacle of commitment.

To challenge, support and inspire someone who is low on the commitment spectrum, consider asking one or more of these ten questions:

What aspirations or goals have you been thinking about recently?

Encourage them to vocalize their thoughts and initiate a conversation about their dreams and aspirations.

Are there specific actions or steps you feel you should take towards your goal?

Help them identify potential steps, moving from mere contemplation to a more actionable mindset.

What possibilities do you see in turning your “should” into a “might”?

Guide them to explore the potential and opportunities that come with considering various possibilities.

Can you identify areas where you’ve gained confidence in moving from “might” to “probably will”?

Highlight instances where their confidence has grown, reinforcing the idea that progress is happening.

In recognizing a need, what aspects do you believe are essential for your personal growth or goal attainment?

Explore the reasons behind the recognized need, helping them understand the significance of taking action.

When you say, “I’ll try,” what efforts or strategies do you envision implementing?

Encourage them to outline specific efforts, emphasizing the importance of internal accountability in the trying stage.

What conscious decisions can you make to transition from “I will” to “I am doing it”?

Guide them to articulate specific actions that solidify their commitment and ownership of the journey.

How can you align your actions more closely with your aspirations, embodying the “I am doing it” mentality?

Help them visualize the alignment between actions and aspirations, fostering a mindset of self-efficacy.

In overcoming fear and doubt, what strengths will you discover within yourself?

Focus on their strengths and resilience, highlighting the internal resources that can help overcome barriers.

What small steps can you take today to celebrate incremental progress on your commitment journey?

Emphasize the significance of small victories and encourage them to take tangible steps toward their goals.

The Time is Now: Make Your Declaration

As we navigate the commitment spectrum, and coach the individuals on our team around this, let’s reflect on our current position and aspire to ascend towards “I am doing it.” The power of execution lies within us, and within each person on our team, waiting to be unleashed. Embrace the challenges, overcome the doubts, and declare with unwavering confidence: “I am doing it!” In this proclamation, we find not just commitment, but the fuel for a journey of extraordinary achievements and personal growth. After all, coaching is just therapy when it doesnt include an action plan.

If you enjoyed this blog by Sean Kelley #thecarbizcoach, CEO of Car Motivators, you can pick up a copy of his most recent book, “Learn to Coach Learn to Lead” on Amazon by clicking the following link: https://a.co/d/8UJUBWI

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Five Leadership Lessons from Coaching Brittany Hibdon

A tribute to Brittany Hibdon, Dealer Principal at Hibdon Auto Center, one of the best leaders I’ve ever been blessed enough to coach. 

I write this article for the late Brittany Hibdon, dealer principal at Hibdon Auto Center, with great sadness and honor. May your fantastic vision be accomplished as you watch over us with love through the lives of your team and loving family.

Lesson One: Deep Care for Others

After a tough coaching conversation with a manager struggling with a suicidal employee, I made a post on LinkedIn. The post was a video, and I wanted to convey that it’s critical to know our employees personally as a leader. In that way, we can be more mindful of their state of well-being, allowing the leader to challenge the employee when the time is right and supporting them when they need it most. In addition, I suggested those managers uncovering challenges like this seek professional help for their team members. That post received an interesting comment from a dealer principal named “Brittany Hibdon.” The comment simply said, “Impeccable timing.” 

 Out of both curiosity and concern, I reached out to her via direct message on Linkedin. Due to the potentially sensitive nature of the issue, I decided to send a personalized video message asking the question, “What’s the situation that this video helped with?”

She replied almost immediately and thoughtfully, expressing deep concern for someone on her team who had a drinking issue that was causing him to miss work. She was worried his addiction would cause him to harm himself and wanted to meet with him at her dealership. Unfortunately, with his attendance issues, she couldn’t get together with him at the store. Here’s where most managers would give up and fire the person. Not Brittany. She wouldn’t give up on any member of her team that easily. She made three solid attempts at meeting this misguided soul outside of work. As a direct result of her passion for helping him and her effort to show she cared, he became an addiction coach. Now that individual helps others overcome their addictions. The lesson, leadership, is caring deeply enough for those on your team to not give up on them, even when they’ve given up on themselves. When you do this, you create loyal relationships for life. What if opportunities to make a positive impact in people’s lives were why you were given the gift of leadership? That’s the attitude Brittany Hibdon took to the leadership table.

Lesson Two: Lead through reciprocity.

One of Brittany’s managers, who was new to the management role, was Cynthia, a young, hard-charging leader. This manager had a great deal of passion, drive, skill, and high expectations of others. Sounds great, right? Often our greatest strengths cause our most significant weaknesses. Mix hard-charging with passion and a desire to achieve, and sometimes that can come across as abrupt with others. This was causing friction throughout the dealership in the form of communication issues.

On top of that, Brittany felt like an opportunity to help the new manager accept criticism. Cynthia would react emotionally when challenged in specific areas, and as Brittany put it, “Her defensiveness is getting in the way of personal growth.” So, on a Thursday night at about 8 pm, Brittany asked me to facilitate a convo bn her and Cynthia. I was honored to be a part of a challenging discussion to help someone grow. Brittany mapped out her list of expectations with me to ensure the manager would have clarity on what changes needed to be made. When you think of a normal convo like this, you imagine the owner talking down at the manager, demanding their expectations. Not Brittany. She started off the conversation by asking the manager and listening first. Some of the questions Brittany asked were: “What expectations of yours am I not meeting? How else can I be a better leader for you?” As a result of this conversation, the two leaders continued to work together successfully until the end. Brittany attributed the cohesion between her and her manager to the dealership successfully navigating the financial strain caused by the first few months of covid. If you want to be the best possible leader, ask and listen to your employees first. This creates conversational reciprocity before talking. Thanks to these ongoing two-way conversations, Cynthia has grown into a fantastic leader over the last two years. Both of them were blessed to have each other in their lives. She shows calm under pressure, top notch listening skills, and care with firm boundaries.

Lesson Three: Tell brutal truths but stay positive.

One of the reasons Brittany brought me into her dealership was that in her Northern California market, the wildfire called “The Campfire” of 2018 had devastated her market. This was the most destructive fire in California history. As a result, thousands upon thousands of people were homeless or moved out of the area. This had a significantly negative impact on her business, as vehicle inventory and customers were nonexistent. Brittany and her office manager held a meeting. Brittany was devastated to find out that they were running on a shoestring budget due to the months of slow business. Even after canceling all marketing spend, she would need to lay people off if things didn’t turn around immediately. To Brittany, laying people off was not an option. She was determined to work together and find a way to keep everyone on her team employed, so we went to work.

The first question I asked was, “How aware is your team of this situation?” They had no idea the situation was so dire.

Next, I asked, “What’s getting in the way of you letting them in on the state of the business?”

She replied, “I don’t want them to worry.” Compassion was one of her greatest strengths.

Then I asked Brittany, “You’re not fair to yourself to shoulder this entire burden alone. What would they be willing to do to help if they knew?”

She believed her team would do anything it took to ensure everyone could keep their jobs, but more on that later.

We spent the next few days raising the bar on daily activity expectations for each role in the dealership. We created a thorough plan for outbound prospecting, posting on social media that Brittany and her team later called the “Plan of Attract.” This was aimed at creating enough business each week that everyone would get a paycheck and remain on the team. In addition, Brittany prepared her speech for the team. I still have that speech, and reading it reminded me of the positivity, tenacity, care, and spirit she had within her as a leader. Here is a small excerpt:

              “Here’s what this means for each of you. Over the next 7 days, I need your help. I need to turn over every rock to find car deals, use every moment of every shift to work, and work harder than you ever have before. We must sell 16 cars this week, that’s 4 from each of you, with a big assist from David helping wherever he can. David that means shadowing, learning, helping, and getting geared up to sell your own cars asap. Suzanne and Christopher, Cynthia, and I will be discussing what that means for you guys. BDC, this is going to take more focus than ever before. I need to see 200+ phone calls per day, every day, not some days. The last 4 days of last week gave me hope that you guys have all the tools necessary to turn this ship around and get us sailing back in the right direction, but it’s not going to be easy. And I need to be very very clear- if we do not take this seriously and do everything humanly possible to sell more cars. Regardless of the effort, if we do not sell 16 cars this week, we will be downsizing. With fewer sales, we need less staff in every area, every department. 

I love you guys, and it breaks my heart to even think about that. But I’m putting your fate in your own hands. I believe that together we can turn things around and keep the team intact. … So make a decision in your heart, in your mindset, right now, and today if you want to fight for this, let’s do it together and make it happen!”

She knew with certainty success was possible if her team was willing to do what they had never done before. As a result of her transparency and belief that anything was possible, her team rallied around her. It was like a light switch was flipped on. The intensity that the Hibdon Automotive team worked with burned hotter than the campfire itself. Not one person quit her team out of fear. Instead, Brittany and her team succeeded day after day, week after week, and kept everyone who stepped up and wanted to be there on her team. Because Brittany shared the difficult truths, her team knew exactly what needed to be accomplished and why. With pure faith in their leader and positivity, her team believed it was possible to succeed.

Lesson Four: Make Deposits and Use Withdraws

I remember looking at the plan thinking, “In all my years in automotive, I’ve never seen a sales team go from what they are doing now to doing THIS.” In the highly robust plan to work, we had to measure activities by the hour, do weekly results, and do income tracking. Suddenly, people who used to make 50 calls per month needed to start making 100+ a day. They engaged people on social media; every service team member and office team member created and posted great videos. Some that went viral on social media; here’s one of my favorites. Hibdon Automotive does the “Gobble Gobble Turkey Wobble” They were messaging every person who clicked “like” on their posts and inviting them in for service. They were asking every service customer if they wanted to test drive a car. The list of what they did goes on and on. To this day, I have yet to see another leader rally their team to that effect. I’m going to go out on a limb and say asking a car salesperson to 100 x their productivity overnight would fail 99% of the time.

This begs the question, “WHY did it work for Brittany?” and “What caused her team to step up and follow her into battle like they did?”

The answer is the deposits and withdraws, but not in the literal financial sense. The stakes Brittany made were in the culture at her dealership and in each individual on her team. Every day her team has a 9:03 meeting facilitated by a different manager. There are activities or games to get everyone thinking and amped up for the day. Together, they say their “For the people” pledge, which hangs in every room throughout the dealership. This serves as a constant reminder that everything the team does, they do to help their customers. She had us conduct cultural assessment surveys to determine what each employee wants and needs to love their job even more. She blocked out time into her schedule to meet with each person regularly. She bought training for everyone on her team. She invested in herself and everyone on her team in coaching through my companies’ coaching services. She would make work fun every day. She would challenge people to be better and have them all read books. She wanted them to be better, but what her business got out of it was always second. The growth was for their families’ sake. She would ask, listen, care, and have meaningful relationships with every employee and as many of her customers as she could. These are the deposits I am referring to. With all those deposits, she earned the right to take the withdrawals necessary. As a result, Brittany could get her team to do what most managers in the car business would deem as impossible. Invest in your people by making deposits like Brittany did. When the time comes, use withdrawals to raise standards while setting clear expectations to help everyone succeed. 

Lesson Five: See things through to completion

Most people in the car business know that the service department is almost always the fastest pace, most chaotic place in the dealership. While a salesperson may have three to five customer interactions a day, it’s not uncommon for a service advisor or manager to have twenty to fifty. As such, a service manager who doubles as a service advisor has to balance random customer interactions throughout the day with all the management tasks they need to get done. The challenge of low staffing levels causing the service manager to double as a parts runner, shop foreman, tech, and many other roles is a recipe for struggle. Brittany’s high standards, strong emotional intelligence, and a keen awareness of the state of affairs for her leaders and their departments. As such, she noticed her service manager needed help. She asked me to work with her Service Manager on building a routine for success in the form of a flex schedule. That being said, creating an effective routine that is real and can be adhered to is a process that can take days and sometimes weeks. To name a few of the steps (to do it right) requires documentation, prioritization, labeling, sorting, scheduling, delegation, deferring, and deletion of tasks. Almost a mountain to accomplish for someone still running a chaotic service department.

After each coaching conversation, Brittan would follow up with me and want to know what he added to his routine today? What steps did we accomplish? How could she help the manager take off of his plate? Where can she help continue the momentum? We would review, make adjustments, communicate back to the service manager and move forward. Brittany’s persistence, accountability, and follow-through ensured this process was completed to its end. Thus, giving the manager more organization, structure, lowering his stress levels and raising the productivity of everyone in their department.

Being Brittney’s executive coach, son’s mentor, her manager’s leadership coach, and close friend has been one of the most rewarding experiences in my career. More importantly, it has been one of the most fulfilling relationships in my life. I am a better person for those blessings she gave, and I will always be grateful to God for those opportunities. There were hundreds of other leadership lessons that Brittany Hibdon exemplified throughout our years of coaching together that this writing can’t begin to scratch the surface. One last thing I will share about Brittany is the long-lasting impact everyone at Hibdon Auto Center knows she’s had on them. Today while working with Brittany’s leaders to gain clarity around delegating out her responsibilities, the leaders faced a lot of tough decisions. Who would take on each new role? How would we do it without her? What positions would need to be created? How will we hold each other accountable? All the answers we needed came from asking one question, “What would Brittany do?”

This is because she was intentional in everything she did. She communicated her values to everyone around her. And her behaviors were consistent with these core values. So the next time you are faced with a challenge or a difficult decision, think of Brittany and ask yourself, “What would Brittany do?” and you will arrive at the best answer.

Brittany Hibdon, you will be sorely missed. Still, your legacy will live on through the amazing team of leaders you’ve built, your wonderful family, and through me, as your coach, forever. “For the people”!

Published By:

Sean Kelley
Ensuring automotive leaders achieve great results through people and tech with a unique approach to people development!
#thecarbizcoach

Traits of an Exceptional Desk Manager

There are about 17,000 new car dealers across the country and over 20,000 non-franchised used car dealers. Most of which, have at the very least one desk manager. This person, often called “The man (or woman) behind the curtain.”, plays a critical role in any dealership. It is this person’s job to leverage their salespeople to ensure customers make the right purchase for both the customer and the dealership. The type of purchase that will ensure the dealership remains profitable, but also enhances the brand of the dealership through the experience of the transaction, and simultaneously builds the skills and confidence of the salesperson involved.

After a decade desking thousands of deals as a desk manager and having led desk managers as a GSM, I am able to share some great insights around desk management. Now, coaching dozens of dealers and their management teams, and conducting cultural assessments across the country: these awesome peoples unique perspectives have taught me what makes a team believe their desk manager is phenomenal vs average. I share these insights in hopes that desk managers continue to grow and improve, or that new desk managers who aren’t shown the ropes are able to learn what it takes to be amazing at the desk vs mediocre. Because I believe an amazing desk manager can have a vast positive impact on their team.

So, what does make a phenomenal desk manager compared to an average desk manager? Here is what I believe makes a desk manager extraordinary!

Wants their team to earn a great living, and tracks this for each individual salesperson.

Desk managers that truly care about their team’s financial wellbeing feel responsible for their teams’ income level. While it certainly does not all rest on their shoulders alone, they take this very seriously. Some desk managers even track their salespeople income objectives for the month, and are consistently reminding their individual people where they are at, in relation to their objective for the month. They want the salespeople to feel like the manager cares about their income as much as they do. By doing so, they know their manager has their best interest at heart. It is important to know that growth and accountability also come with measurement and follow up. The true leader of desking helps their people reach their income goals by being proactive and checking in after each deal, throughout the month, with each person.

Trains before the game and coaches during the game.

The Fabio of the four square is proactive in their approach to people development. When their people aren’t busy, they will grab employees and roleplay real and relevant negotiation or business transaction scenarios. They believe in continuous improvement and are always seeking ways to help each employee grow where they need it most. They will coach people on the metrics within their CRM that could ultimately impact results. Some of the best desk managers I work with across the country will even assign books for their people to read and have team meetings and discussions about them. They may have their people rate themselves on various selling related activities and determine who could help them train the rest of the team, or ask who wants training on which topic. This all happens during down time. Once a customer is engaged; however, it’s game time. The training stops and coaching kicks in. They will stay calm, cool and collected. Even when faced with the most challenging customers, they coach their people through it. They leverage this on the job coaching to help each salesperson develop problem solving skills and adopt the right mindsets that are duplicatable and sustainable. They know that being a crutch for their employees and solving their problems for them is not scalable and hinders success. They seek out opportunities for growth during the game, and ask the right thought provoking questions at the right time. This coaching ensures ensure guided autonomy takes place and salespeople continue to think for themselves.

Ensures salespeople follow the process.

We all know that it is possible to sell a car without following the entire road to the sale. The challenge that allowing salespeople to circumvent the process creates, is that it lowers accountability to the process itself. Salespeople may sell some cars by skipping steps because a fraction of buyers don’t need the entire process. Ultimately, it’s all the sales that would require the full process completion for the sale to come to fruition that are at stake. An exceptional desk manager is process driven and seeks to be each employee’s accountability partner in ensuring that they act the same way. They are on the lookout for people in the act of skipping steps, and quickly make corrections. Allowing certain people to sell how they want, when they want, can also rub off on other less tenured employees. Unless there are clear expectations tied to tenure or performance, they ensure everyone sticks to the steps at all times.

Knows what’s going on and gives relevant info.

An extraordinary desk manager follows each customer interaction from start to finish. They are consistently communicating with the customer and the salesperson. Whenever necessary, they provide relevant information and add value to the situation at hand. Asking enough questions and reading all of the information within the CRM and DMS for each customer is critical to seeing the big picture. Tailor fit responses to customer questions and suggestions based on the customers personality, needs and wants, past behavior, desired traits, expectations, and progress through the process are critical. This awareness helps the manager give great information to their people and clients that lead to informed buying decisions with little buyer’s remorse that go exceedingly smooth.

Meets the customer early in the sale.

Seeking to avoid the “Man behind the curtain” perception, to set expectations and plant seeds that will help with the sale further along in the process, the exceptional desk manager seeks to meet customers early, and often, in the sale. Assuring the customer that they are in great hands with their salesperson. That the manager is always here to support them with your team adds a massive degree of value. It also shows the potential buyer the appreciation level that is necessary for them to not just feel good, but to feel great about their purchase.

They trust, but verify.

Buying a car is a stressful experience through the eyes of many customers. This is partly due to the stigma attached to automotive employees. Also, because customers don’t understand the buying process: the unknown creates fear. This fear and anxiety causes customers to put up a wall or sometimes lie to salespeople and managers. This phenomenon may also occur when a salesperson asks the wrong question at a bad time. In addition, salespeople may have facades. They know their salespeople have information that they may want to avoid sharing for fear of a negative reaction. An extraordinary desk manager doesn’t believe, “buyers are liars”, nor do they believe that their salespeople are. They trust people and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. This creates open dialogue and good communication which is necessary to be truly effective at the desk. It shows the customer and salesperson that they listen, and thanks to the law of reciprocity, ensures that they are listened to as well. On the other side of the coin, the manager also sniffs out when something isn’t quite right. They will verify reality at almost every impasse. The intent is to determine if the customer has been lied to and is misinformed. To uncover if the customer doesn’t trust the company or salesperson and as a result is offering a lie. Or to find out if the employee is fearful of sharing the truth or simply unaware that the information they possess can help make the deal. The leader can and will ensure proper guidance and response by trusting everyone involved but also verifying reality.

Holds people accountable and asks their team to do the same for them.

Not even the exceptional desk manager is 100% flawless in ensuring they accomplish everything that they set out to do each day. No one is perfect! However, the exceptional desk manager will work with other people to co-create action plans and ensure that these plans become reality. They will hold people accountable the way they want to be held accountable. They may even ask others around them to help hold themselves accountable, which ultimately ensures the long-term success of everyone. Accountability is a mindset for the exceptional desk manager. As a result, deals go smoother, finance can operate at a higher capacity and you can count on them and their team to get things done.

Works deals the same as other desk managers.

Alignment and uniformity helps everyone stay on the same page. When people are on the same page, they know how to approach the desk. Any stores with multiple desk managers can vastly improve the employee experience when putting together deals in this way. Working with dealers across the country, one of the primary complaints I hear is about salespeople, “Playing Mommy Daddy”, with different managers to accomplish the result they want. This occurs primarily when the managers each do things their own way, and the process or methodologies are inconsistent. The exceptional desk manager will try to follow the same order of operations as the other managers do to help ensure alignment and consistency.

Knows how to leverages ALL the tools at their disposal.

The best gym set in the world won’t help you get buff, unless you use it. Then if you use that gym set without knowing how, there is a great probability of injuring yourself. Most dealers invest thousands of dollars in some awesome tools. (and some not so often, but that’s an entirely different topic) Everything from used car appraisal software, website plugins, to CRM technology can help the tech savvy desking star, rock out extra deals, build value in the purchase for the customer, or streamline and enhance the sales process for the dealership. Often these tools go underutilized and great opportunities to grow the business are wasted. Know what tools are in your toolbox and use them at the right time.

Understands different communication styles and flexes them accordingly.

There are many ways to communicate, so what is the best way? The way that the buyer prefers. The phenom of automotive desk managers can identify which method each customer prefers after a brief conversation with the customer or sales associate, or sometimes even after having read the notes in the CRM. They also understand each of their salespeople’s preferences and know how to flex to them. By doing this, the manager can read between the lines on where each deal sits as it progresses. Then the desk manager will ensure the language, information and delivery is set for the salesperson to tailor to the customer! Sound crazy? If you have a fact and data driven customer that likes to crunch numbers and analyze the information, and a fast-talking story telling excitable salesperson, the deal may be doomed! Unless the exceptional desk manager slows the deal down, offers up the facts, data, and time frame that will help the salesperson help the customer make an educated and informed decision! On the other hand, if you have a thoughtful mindful customer with a type of customer that is hard charging, push the car over the curb to accomplish the results type of salesperson, the pro manager will load the lips to ensure thoughtful questions are asked and concerns are expressed.

Created a fun exciting and positive experience for salespeople.

What is the experience like when your salespeople touch desk? Is it stressful? Are their jobs threatened? Is it berate and browbeat? Is it rewarding and fun? Is it positive and exciting? Does the experience make them want to do it again or avoid it like the plague? I loved working deals with my first and only sales manager in the car business. The man, that I was lucky enough to replace when he moved on, made desking deals extremely fun. There was no customer challenge that he wouldn’t help you battle through as best he could. You always left his office feeling confident and excited that the ammo he has given you would work. When it didn’t, and you did exactly as asked, he would take the blame too. You were recognized for a job well done and offered training and coaching when there was opportunity to grow.

Shows extreme appreciation.

Gratitude is a great way for a desk manager to show humility and appreciation. Every time a salesperson drops a deal on your desk, acknowledging their hard work and dedication to take a deal that far is paramount. In addition, they show the customer extreme appreciation for their business. Only with extreme appreciation can others truly understand how important their role is in your career and life. The most grateful guys and gals of the sales desk will say thank you a minimum of 3 times while working each deal!

Knows how to build value through others.

When you talk about building value, it can sound so vague. One of the ways I interpret value building, means to give insights that are aligned to what the buyer wanted but wasn’t aware of. Offering up something you know that they didn’t know which will help them make a good or better decision. The best way to find out what they are or are not aware of something is to ask them! To build value through others is the equivalent of asking our salespeople to ask the right questions which will help them add value! The savvy sales manager will ask open ended questions to their salespeople like, “How do you know the customer wants to own this car right now?” Or “What do they already know about the car you are about to show and what do they want to learn more about?” By asking questions like these consistently, your team will begin to uncover these values adding opportunities which will help them help the customer!

Tries to avoid multi-tasking.

If I had a penny for every time a salesperson told me during a cultural assessment, “My manager ignores me when I’m talking.” or “If they would stop texting and listen…” Our brain can only process one thing at a time. Multi-tasking is a lie! The illusion of multitasking comes in someone’s ability to switch back and forth between two or more tasks quickly. Along with working deals, most desk manager jobs are comprised of many other to-dos. The extremely skilled desk manager is a master of time management. They know how much time is needed each day for desking deals and plan accordingly. They know when they need a time out to grind through paperwork, operational tasks, responsibilities like training, coaching, marketing, or any other slew of job requirements. They get them done when they are supposed to get done. When they are desking a deal with you, they seem 110% focused on what it is you and your customer need to move forward with a deal.

Loads the lips of the employees when working deals.

Salespeople of all tenure are faced with the “Want the deal more than what’s best for everyone.” mindset. The extraordinary sales manager can flex his or her communication style according to the customer and salesperson. He is able to tap into his real-world experience, automotive I.Q., employee E.Q., and ensure that they present the right things to say, and in the right way, to the salesperson on a silver platter. The salesperson should not only know what they are saying, but the ‘why’ behind the statement. In that way, they have the flexibility to make the statements more impactful and relevant. Loading the lips with more advanced salespeople should also be slightly different from new people. I recommend when working with veterans, to ask them, “what is your approach going to be?” or “please walk me through your close here so that we can make sure we that are on the same page.” After hearing their game plan, you have earned the right to load their lips. When you ask, you may be surprised by how many will already be thinking about saying what you were about to tell them to say! Other times, the exceptional desk manager will learn a new close from the veteran! Either way, every interaction involves a discussion about the next conversation with the client.

Ensure every deal feels like a deal and understands perception is reality.

A term I have learned to love from my time in Psychological Operations is, “Perception is reality.” If our customer believes that they got a great deal, then the reality is, they got a great deal! Salespeople see almost every deal, every day, as do managers. The challenge this presents is that knowing a customer paid less for the same car last week, puts a mental barrier up that makes us feel like the customer isn’t getting a great deal this time! An amazing desk manager works with salespeople on every deal to help the salesperson convey the value the customer is getting for the money. They understand a good deal is a state of mind, and they find out what makes the salesperson believe it truly is a good deal. The goal is to help the salesperson and customer both know that they were at the right place at the right time. This desk manager understands that price isn’t the only part of a great deal. It’s also finding the perfect vehicle for the customer and ensuring that the experience is fantastic. The perception of a great deal can be skewed one way or another depending on these other factors. Often, the customers that pay the least, also happen to believe that they paid too much! It is all perception, and the pro desk manager, knows how to create this perception in every situation possible.

Knows when to SWAT. Knows when to switch vehicles. Knows when to locate or trade for a car.

An extraordinary desk manager will have control over their aged inventory because they are great at ensuring salespeople land customers on the right cars that they need to move. Along with that, they will seldom lose deals because of inventory challenges. This is because they understand the value of contingency plans. They ensure that their salespeople have that 2nd or 3rd back up plan if the in-stock unit does not work. They know when the stakes are high. They will understand when a customer is going to walk and that it’s time to do a locate or buy a car from another lot to ensure that the customer will buy today!

Doesn’t give up.

An extraordinary desk manager treats every deal like it’s the most important deal of the month. They are tenacious and must outlast even the hungriest of salespeople when they have thrown in the towel on a deal. They have more stamina and power than the most stubborn buyer. No doesn’t mean no forever, it means not right at this second! Sometimes they overcome a dozen objections alongside their salesperson before even thinking about throwing in the towel. Even when the month is three quarters over and the dealership is halfway to its goal, they redouble their efforts. Consistently partaking in the right actions and activities that produce the results they want because they believe if they are going to miss an objective, it wont be because they didn’t give 150% effort. They simply do not give up.

Is a great problem solver.

The best desk managers believe that there is always a way to get to a yes. When they hear a “no”, they don’t get bent out of shape or down in the dumps. They determine that there is a problem that needs solving and they work with their salesperson and the customer to uncover and solve it. By doing so, everyone gets to move forward. Even if a problem cannot be solved right now and the customer has to leave, they work behind the scenes to solve the problems and sell a car. Their intuition may even work in the background, allowing them to breath life back into a dead deal before the month is over. How many extra deals can be engineered with a little problem solving and persistence at your dealership?

Knows the banks programs and the bank reps.

So many banks create so many possibilities. The exceptional desk manager is always understanding of what opportunity will fit best for the client and the dealership. Thousands in extra revenue can be generated quite quickly if your exceptional desk manager knows which banks pay the highest flat, or what lenders fund certain deals easier or faster. They are there also there as a safety net for finance. This will ensure no customer leaves over a finance or payment challenge. Salespeople often become frustrated and disengaged when finance steers the ship on credit and loan calls. The savvy desk manager inspects what he/she expects and isnt afraid to click another lender in dealertrack or pick up the phone and call a lender to get something approved or funded.

T.O. a deal when they can or flip a deal when they can’t.

Never letting a customer leave without touching desk is critical to a sales team’s success. In fact, the data I have accumulated shows that by increasing T.O. percentage by 30%, a salesperson’s closing percentage goes up 8%. That is a huge sales increase simply by ensuring that everyone gets a turn! The pro desk manager will be able to identify the moment at which a salesperson can no longer add value to a conversation with the customer. They will spring into action at that moment. The desk manager can’t be everywhere at once. Prioritizing time is essential for being efficient and effective at the desk. While the aficionado of dealership desking wants to T.O. every customer, they also know when it isn’t a good time to get roped into a lengthy close. As such, they are aware when it’s time to grab a good closer off the showroom floor and send someone else in to make the deal happen (even if it means a split deal). Ultimately, the salesperson is better off having 50% of a deal now, then 30% chance of a deal later with great follow up. The pro desk manager will ensure that each salesperson knows the value in a TO, and everyone will understand and welcome this part of the process with open arms.

Connects cross functioning dealership departments like finance, service and BDC.

The mantra of the dynamic desk manager is “there is no “I” in team”! Their process integrates cross functioning departments such as finance, BDC, service, even cashier into everything that they do. They believe that either the dealership employees succeed together or fail together. You may have heard the saying “business goes where it’s wanted and stays where it’s valued”. Involving the entire team can help customers feel this gratitude that leads to customer loyalty and satisfaction. Imagine a smiling introduction to your cashier to each customer. What if the porter pulled the car up front and wiped off the door handle before opening it for the customer to begin the delivery? What if the service customer had an extra coupon laying around that they gave to that special customer before they took their new car home? Selling used cars can be a challenge when customers have had a negative experience from buying elsewhere with mechanical issues. What if you brought your service manager or technician in to go over the shop bill to build credibility? What if before an unsold showroom visit left, you introduced them to the BDC person that would be following up long term to ensure the customer receives the information that will help them make a great decision? There are many creative ways to involve the entire team that create an amazing experience, build the dealerships brand, and generate customer loyalty (and the best desk managers do just that).

Goes to bat for their team.

The clever deal tactician knows how to pick their battles. They also know how critical it is to have a sales team that has their back. For them to have your back, they need to know that you have theirs. It’s the law of reciprocity! At some point in the game, a challenge will come from above that will threaten their team’s morale. A challenge could come from an unruly customer who is treating their car salesperson with utter and blatant disrespect. While unfortunate, this is an opportunity for the desk manager to go to bat for their team. Even if this amazing leader loses the battle, their team will have taken notice, and this will help everyone rally behind them. The excellent desk managers team has their back, knowing they will not let them fail. This is the ultimate safety net for any manager.

Stays cool under pressure.

The desk manager is constantly under fire. As soon as they hit the showroom floor, the phone is ringing off the hook. Vendors bombarding them from every angle and vying for their time. The customer from last weekend shows up to pick up the floor mats that they were promised, but that salesman is off work today! Salespeople line up to work deals. The owner of the store is on the line asking them to have a new demo cleaned up and have plates slapped on it for their friend who is coming to visit. Then you have your finance people that are coming up to the desk angry because a credit app was missing a middle initial! It never ends. Yet, the true desking stallion stays as cool as the other side of the pillow. They can prioritize tasks, say no to people, delegate out things that are of low or no value, and defer things that can wait until later. No matter how busy things get, they stay calm, because the steadfast leadership needed to get the job done comes from a state of confidence in both their ability and their knowledge that they are focusing on the right activity at any given time.

They believe in continuous improvement.

There are many more traits, habits and behaviors that make a desk manager excellent or even phenomenal instead of average. They know how to make the biggest impact in their career and the careers of others around them, by continuously growing and improving. The phenomenal desk manager may still be reading this because they want to squeeze every drop of knowledge out of an article they can! As a result, no matter what changes arise in the market place, they adapt and overcome them because they constantly learn and grow.

This is an excerpt from an upcoming book on automotive sales and leadership by Sean Kelley. Sean #thecarbizcoach has successfully managed dealers for a decade, drastically lowering employee turnover and increased profits, customer retention, and client satisfaction. Sean helps dealers achieve great results through their people and technology with a unique approach to coaching and people development. As Chief Business Development Officer of DriveCentric CRM, Sean helped them double their revenue in under 6 months. To experience the same results, contact Sean Kelley at Sean@carmotivators.com or Get Started For FREE With Coach Chat 

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The Only Thing You Can Coach On

Everyone who knows me, knows I’m broken! What I mean by that is anything I do, I go all in. I give 1000% of my passion and effort towards that cause. To my detriment because I often ignore other things! Being passionate about our country, I joined the Army, went into special ops and volunteered for deployments overseas. Finishing with the Army, started selling cars with an extreme passion which led to me managing dealerships. Going 1000% at managing dealerships introduced me to coaching. After almost 15 years on the showroom floor, I realized coaching was my new 1000% passion.

 My insatiable passion for coaching people to reach their goals has become something that I am blessed enough to live out daily. I have the honor of working with company owners, sales managers and salespeople across the country. I get to have amazing conversations with these savvy business people regularly. Finding ways to help them achieve greater results, impact their team, and gain more career satisfaction is extremely rewarding. It’s almost a classic fairy tale! I know… A weird analogy for an ex-special ops Army guy! Blame my two lovely daughters and the fact that we’re planning a trip to Disney next month. That being said, if I am to put myself into a fairy tale, it’s important that I point out the antagonist in my story! The villain in my coaching fairy tale is the pea. That’s right, when it comes to coaching conversations, what I am sharing in this article is the pea to my princess. The one thing hidden deep under all the mattresses which causes me to toss and turn at night and lose sleep! This will ultimately be a lesson for you managers that are seeking to be even better leaders by coaching your team.

What I’ve learned, there is only one thing you can coach someone on or that you can receive coaching on. That my friends is a controllable. A controllable is something that you alone have impact or influence over. Often, I enter into a coaching conversation and it seems the person I am coaching feels helpless. They feel helplessness about the current state of their career or about the way their manager interacts with them. Managers feel helpless about what their employees say and do. Having much empathy for other business people in this situation, I’m always seeking to find ways to help them. What I realized was that I couldn’t help them with any coaching around anything that is a non-controllable!

What can’t we control?

Other People

While it would certainly be useful, and most likely fun to control what other people say and do, unfortunately, it’s just not possible! Actually, we can control how we approach others! Want to make a massive impact in an upcoming conversation? Would you like to have a difficult conversation with someone and aren’t sure how to approach them? Feeling frustrated with how someone is treating you at work but aren’t sure how to handle it? These are things we can coach on.

The Market

If only as a coach I could control the market for you, anyone else, or myself for that matter! Oh to affect supply and demand and directly influence traffic for my clients. That would be pretty awesome stuff! Sadly, I don’t have those powers. I do as a coach; however, have the power to help you influence your market share. How can coaching do this? By helping you tailor actions, routines, and messages that will end up landing more appointments, bringing in customers, and closing more sales for you!

The Past

We’ve all tried things and failed. We’ve all made mistakes! Everyone one of us has had negative experiences and outcomes. We’ve all felt stuck before! I know, you’ve been doing it that same way forever! Don’t let your past out-negotiate your future. If you are limiting yourself due to the failures of the past, or how you’ve always done it your future possibilities will become fairly bleak. For something to change, something must change! What does that mean for coaching? You’ve got to be open to creating new possibilities by changing your actions which will change future outcomes.

If you focus on a controllable, what happens?

Your actions become laser focused

You can choose to take action around any given situation. If you want other people to treat you differently, the action you could choose to take might be to have a difficult conversation to discuss how you expect to be treated. If you want your manager to promote you but don’t believe they will, you could schedule a conversation and ask what expectations you need to meet in order to be next in line. If your sales are lacking, and you’re frustrated with the market…you can carve out time for actions that impact business like unsold prospect follow up calls, social media branding, social media selling, sold prospect referral generation, cold calling orphaned contacts, meeting with service customers, taking current owners to lunch and strengthening those relationships…etc.

Your reactions become impactful

Are you a product of your environment? Only if you allow yourself to be. Every day, great and amazing things will happen to you. Each day, things you perceive as negative will also happen to you. When you take the good things and relish in them, allow the bad to be like water off a duck’s back. When you keep your cool, you’re mastering your reactions. When others don’t respond or act in a favorable way to you, know that it’s not about you. It’s about them! They aren’t trying to screw you over, it’s just life. When something happens that you may normally shy away from, your new self-awareness will help you tackle these challenges like a true gladiator. Use both positive and negative experiences to create reactions that improve you as a person, as a salesperson, and as a leader!

Your attitude changes for the best

We all have an inner coach. Sometimes the coach is great – encouraging us to work harder, be better, stay strong! Other times, our inner coach acts like a spoiled two-year-old telling us that we are entitled to something, demands that we give up, or tells us things won’t work. I have good news for you, to quote my coach Keith Rosen – “You are not a product of your thoughts.” A few weeks ago, my AC went out, a client had to reschedule on me, and I found out a house I’m selling soon has termites! That week cost me about twelve thousand dollars. My inner coach turned into that spoiled two-year-old, I started getting frustrated at all of the bad luck! I could have stayed down in the dumps for a week, crippling my ability to function! Instead I thought to myself, “My AC went out in May, it could have happened in July when it was 30 degrees warmer! I’m lucky!” Also, now I can list this when I sell my home and potentially sell it much faster… not to mention, my electric bill is about 50 bucks lower per month! The termites? Psh, we caught them early! Some of those infestations go on for years and the house needs massive structural rehab. These bugs had only been in the home for months, and as a result, the treatment was the only cost. Finally, the client rescheduled? Perfect, more time this month to prospect and connect with potential clients! Which I did, and I landed one. Ultimately, my attitude helped me turn the expense of $12,000 into a $48,000 gain!

Your language generates desired outcomes

Have you ever tried something out but stopped when it didn’t work? Maybe it was coaching your salespeople, conducting sales meetings, cold calling prospects, trying to sell service customers…etc. How can one person can talk to 100 customers and sell 60 cars, while another salesperson can talk to 100 customers and sell 15 cars? One salesperson calls 1000 customers and schedules 10 appointments, while another call 1000 and sets 100 appointments? This is primarily due to the language being used, and the message being delivered. When you learn to improve your language, ask more questions, say the right thing at the right time… results will improve. The way we communicate with others is certainly a controllable; thus, you can coach someone on their language and message!

Summing things up…

If you’re listening to your salespeople rant about everything that they can’t control, you are more a therapist and less of a coach. Not to say that we don’t all need someone to listen to our woe’s sometimes! Just remember, you can only let them point outward at other people, the market, their environmental conditions, or what didn’t work in the past, for so long before getting them to look in the mirror. Snap them out of these unhealthy, entitled mindsets when they are blaming everyone and everything else for their plight. Help them understand that they aren’t helpless and that they do have the power to control the controllable. This will ultimately lead to the results that they need and want most! Remove the “pea” out from under the mattress, help your coachee’s by focusing on the controllable and get your coach on!

Sean Kelley #thecarbizcoach CEO of Car Motivators in Arnold Missouri helps sales leaders achieve great results through their people and technology, with a unique approach to coaching and people development. If you are interested in achieving these same results, email Sean@CarMotivators.com

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The 4 Step Game-Plan Our Dealers Use to Maximize Sales Potential and Increase Accountability, Without Working Their People Harder

Who is this for?

This is for owners and GMs that have always dreamed of having the most profitable and not only the highest customer satisfaction but the highest employee satisfaction dealership in the region!

This is for owners and GMs of car dealerships that want to sell more cars and make more money, in a market of increasing competitiveness and margin compression.

This is for owners and GMs that finally want to stop the madness and don’t want to be part of the industry average of 80% salesperson turnover and the associated half a million dollars lost each year because of it.

If you want to finally build a winning culture so that your team is fully engaged and everyone is making more money, then this article is for you.

In this article, I am going to show you…

👉 How to turn your sales and management team into predictable over-achievers, even if they’ve constantly been operating below their maximum potential.

👉 How to make your dealership a place where the best salespeople and managers want to work, even if you’ve been plagued by high turnover for years.

👉 How to make your dealership a place where the customer wants to be.

👉 How to increase the ROI on the training and software that you have already paid for, even if it seems like your sales team isn’t interested in learning how to do it a better way.

👉 How to implement a grand vision and get everyone bought-in to the same goals and mission, even if that seems like an impossible task right now.

…And I’m going to show you how to do all of this, without needing to spend more time than we already know you don’t have…and asking your staff to work more hours.

My Promise to you:

I am going to give you a step-by-step strategy to create a winning culture in your dealership so that you’re selling more inventory, making more money per deal, and your team is happier than ever before.

I know this might sound like a big promise, but it’s the same approach that we’ve used to turn countless dealerships into highly profitable businesses, that are also amazing places to work.

So I want to invite you to push those limits of what you think is possible, and let’s get into it.

House Rules:

🚘 This is NOT for owners or GMs that think they have to keep doing the same things they have always done just because that’s the way it has always been.

🚘 This is NOT for owners or GMs that believe that investing in their people is a bad investment.

🚘 This is NOT for owners and GMs that believe that rigid control and “my way or the highway” is the best way to manage a team.

🚘 This is NOT for owners and GMs that believe success is only accomplished by a “work longer hours and work your day off” management style.

Does this sound like you?

Really quickly, let me just check in with you and see if I know where you’re at:

👉 Does the reality of margin compression in the car industry make you lose sleep because you are not sure how to keep lowering your prices and erasing your already thin margins?

👉 Do you know that you are leaving money on the table every single day because your sales, finance and management teams are operating below their potential?

👉 Do you stress out because you’re adding more and more to the workload of your already overworked staff, but you feel that you can’t afford to hire new people?

👉 Do you struggle with the costs associated with really high employee turnover, and you don’t know how to mitigate those costs?

👉 Do you secretly wonder how you are going to compete in the future as it becomes harder and harder to retain and find good talent, especially as the veteran salespeople start to retire?

👉 Does it drive you crazy knowing that you spend so much money every year on training and technology solutions for your team and then it goes underutilized?

👉 Are you being forced to treat your product as a commodity, when you know that you provide so much value to your customers beyond just the car itself?

…Do you feel that there is just this invisible ceiling on your profits and growth?

The real problem:

You haven’t yet made “the shifts”.

If you nodded your head for any of those things, I have good news, because none of those things are the real problem, those are just the symptoms, the real problem is that you haven’t yet made what I call “the shifts”.

And I’m going to explain to you what those are in a second.

But just know that, once you make “the shifts” …

💥 You’ll have customers that choose to buy from you because you offer the best value, not the cheapest prices.

💥 Your sales people will have the tools they need to operate to their potential every single day, and you’ll no longer worry that their deficiencies are costing you money.

💥 Your sales staff will have a work-life balance and will be much happier in their roles.

💥 You’ll almost eliminate employee turnover and eliminate most of the costs associated with that problem.

💥 You’ll always have a full pipeline of talented people that want to work for you because your dealership is known to be the best place to work.

💥 Retiring staff will no longer be a problem because you have built a system that allows your people to train up and you promote from within.

💥 You’ll finally get the most out of the training and technology you pay for, because your employees will engage in it, and will continually grow their production as a result.

Who am I?

My name is Jon Stubblefield, and I’m a partner with Car Motivators, America’s leading coaching company for car dealerships.

I use my experience in the auto industry to help my clients create the ultimate winning dealership culture to help them become the most profitable and highest employee satisfaction dealership in their area.

In my first six months with Car Motivators, I helped the company grow by 50%. I did this by working with multiple sales and finance departments all across the USA to help them get amazing results by leveraging and maximizing the potential of their people and their technology.

Discovering the 4 shifts

Let me quickly tell you how I discovered these 4 shifts that I am about to share with you. I’ve been in the car business for many years now, and in that time, I’ve had the opportunity to work with a lot of great owners, general managers, sales managers, salespeople, and customers.

In this time I have worked for large dealer groups, down to one store owners and I’ve seen what has worked and what hasn’t.

I studied what the successful dealers and people were doing, and I narrowed it down to these 4 things.

These are the 4-shifts I teach my dealer clients so that they can turn their dealerships into highly profitable businesses comprised of leaders and salespeople that can’t wait to get out of bed in the morning because they love what they do, and are making great money.

And so today, what I want to do, is pull back the curtain and break down for you what the most successful car dealers are doing, and how they are embracing coaching to massively transform their culture, profit, and impact on their employees and community.

And pay attention, because what I am about to share with you, goes against a lot of the conventional wisdom you’ve been taught about how to sell cars and run a dealership. Think back to the turnover for salespeople 80% and US employee average at 19%.

There are 4 key shifts that you must make to take your car business to make more money and nurture the best talent.

Shift 1: Stop Focusing On Working Harder and Longer Hours

A rocking horse can do a whole lot of rocking…. and still get nowhere.

The reality is, most of the “work” your team is doing is not getting your dealership closer to its goals. Conventional wisdom says that a good employee is one that works long hours, and does a lot of “work”.

We have become convinced that the perfect car salesperson is one who is willing to work 14 hours/day, 6-7 days per week.

This is not the way to do it, and it’s the reason your dealership is struggling and why the turnover is so crazy!

It’s not about the amount of work we do, it’s about the impact of that work. The truth is, that most of the “work” your team is doing does not create the full impact, and does not create the maximum value for your business.

The “work-more” mentality means that you are wasting your employees’ time, burning them out, and making them dread going to the job that you need them to excel at.

That approach is not going to drive your dealership forward.

Stop focusing on tasks, and start focusing on outcomes. Stop measuring the number of hours worked, and start measuring the impact created. Stop overworking your people just for the sake of keeping them busy.

Let’s say you have a salesperson who sells 20 cars a month right now but wants more time off, would it hurt you to give him a goal of say 25 cars and if he hits his goal he can work fewer days.

If you had to run two shifts of 25 car salespeople that work 4 days per week would that be a bad thing? Dont force them to work those hours just because it’s the car business and that’s the way it’s been forever. Can you say 80% retention instead of 80% turnover……..

When you do this, you will quickly see an increase in impact and tangible value creation. Even if it seems like your team is working less, they will accomplish more because now they are open to doing what actually matters while they are there to actually work.

Shift 2: Create Clear Expectations

If you don’t make your expectations clear to the people that work for you, they will make their own. If you can’t clearly articulate them to yourself, your team isn’t going to have a hope of meeting your expectations.

Think about where the gaps are as a way of knowing where in your business you need to have those expectations.

We believe this starts with a clear Cultural Vision.

Do you have a clear Cultural Vision? Decide what the perfect dealership looks like. Dream big! Do you want to be the best, most profitable, highest employee and customer satisfaction dealer in your area, how about your region?

Who is (YOUR) Dealership? If you are the best, most profitable, highest employee and customer satisfaction dealer in your region, what do you believe, what are your core values, what are the behaviors of your leaders and their team members?

This is best accomplished when you co-create this with your team and not by yourself. You not only get your leaders’ input but its really awesome when you create a shared team culture and you get everyone involved including salespeople.

If they build it they own it! If they own it they will act on it!

Now, do you have clear expectations?

Do you have employee playbooks with specific duties? Do you have clear Steps To The Sale with not only what’s expected but with best practices, scripts and objection handling.

Do your new hires have a 90-day playbook that walks them through what to do every day and what results to expect for each step for the first 90-Days?

Do you have systems in place for when they fail, because you know this will happen, regularly, and are you there for them with positive reinforcement.

Do your leaders help them see this not as a failure but a learning experience and opportunity to do better the next time!

If you answered no to the above questions then you need to build these. These again are best built with the involvement of everyone on your team, leaders and salespeople.

It’s one thing to have expectations, but your team also needs context and intention so that your expectations are more clear, and easier for them to follow. Create that shared Vision.

If your team understands how the expectations fit into the bigger picture of what the dealership is trying to accomplish, then getting them to commit to those expectations will be much easier if they are built together.

It’s not enough for you to simply tell your team what you expect of them, you need to make it mutual. As a leader, your team is going to have expectations of you, and you need to understand those expectations as well.

This needs to be a true conversation and team-building exercise so that both sides understand the other, and you can work in alignment to serve the big picture.

Shift 3: Get buy-in from your people

True leadership requires getting buy-in from those that you lead. It will also make your job much easier if this happens.

If you’re going to get results and outcomes that you’ve never gotten before, you’re going to need to make changes. You are going to need to do things you have never done before!

Your team needs to know why you are implementing the changes, and where it is going to take them. What are the benefits for both you and them?

Find out how your newly created cultural vision is going to positively impact their careers and how you plan to measure success and expectations.

Personalize the tasks that you assign to each person so that it plays to their strengths. If you set your team up for success they are going to be motivated to achieve their goals.

Every member of your team should know how their work is critical to the outcomes you’re all striving toward. It makes sense to let the members of your team play a role in defining the work they will be doing.

Getting your team to take on this new cultural vision is not an event, it’s a process that they will need to continue to work toward. This means that you need to continually follow-up with them. This doesn’t mean you are there to listen to them complain, but your team should know that you are there to address their concerns with a solution-based mindset.

When your team buys-in to the new Cultural Vision, new levels of possibility will be revealed.New Paragraph

Case Study: Wilde Honda – Sarasota, Florida

The General Sales Manager Jay Alexander did not want to simply buy a one-size-fits-all training solution for his team, he wanted his team to get the individual help they needed so that every person in the dealership could increase their potential.

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Before investing in Car Motivators coaching, the team was struggling to maintain growth alongside the barriers that they had in place at the time; a small storage lot and small service facilities.

They knew they needed to embrace social selling as a way of getting more referrals, but they just didn’t know where to start.

Time management was an ongoing issue for them, as it always seemed like there was too much to do, and not enough time to do it.

When we came in there to coach Jay and his team, we really got them to think differently about how they were selling cars and engaging with their customers. The results were transformational.

They started selling more cars than ever, with less stress than ever. Management did not need to work their team harder, but they were able to get a better ROI from the efforts they were already putting in.

They implemented a successful social selling program that utilizes social media and video response initiatives.

The monthly sales record for this dealership had been stuck at 380 cars sold for two years, and in December 2019, they hit 408, shattering their old record.

In that same month, the Used Car Manager Kevin Allen broke his personal record and did 183 cars sold in his department.

They also smashed their quarterly record by hitting 1,028 cars sold.

The bottom line is that Wilde Honda embraced the coaching model, and gave every member of their team the ability to get the personalized attention they needed to be able to push their own limits of what is possible.

⬇️ Watch the video below to hear the interview with GSM Jay Alexander ⬇️

Shift 4: Invest in coaching

Training and coaching are not the same thing, and your team needs both.

This is a critical mistake that so many car dealerships make, they invest in training solutions and leave it there. The difference is that training is generic, but coaching is customized.

Every member of your team is going to relate to training in a different way, and that is why they need customized coaching to be able to make the best use of the training that you have invested in.

Coaching is for everyone because it is specific to the person and the struggles that they are having.

One of the biggest obstacles that dealers face is that they don’t know how to get their people to operate to their potential. They have invested in the best training, but they aren’t getting the engagement that they were hoping for. Their people just aren’t doing the work they need to do to get better.

Every member of your sales team is different, they have different personality types, and different skill sets. When they have a coach that can take them through proven training in a way that is contextual to them, they will be fully engaged, and the results grow exponentially.

The highest achievers in every discipline have coaches, and selling cars is no different. If you want your team to catapult your business to the top, they need a coach.

Now you have a choice…

We’ve covered a lot, I’ve given you some new ideas, I’ve shown you that it’s possible for you to turn your dealership into a top performing dealership that is comprised of a team of sales people that love working for you.

I’ve shown you that the absolute best way to grow your dealership is by creating a winning culture and getting engagement from your people.

So you have a choice…

🚘 You can continue to try and stay competitive by just giving more away and playing into the cheap-mindset;

🚘 You can continue to rely on sales people that are burned out and are constantly looking for a new job;

🚘 You can continue to watch idly as your team operates below their potential;

🚘 You can continue to lose valuable time and money with sales person turnover;

🚘 You can continue to spend money on training that your team isn’t interested in…

Or, if you’re done with all that and you want to leverage a proven process to make this year the best year ever for your dealership, then here’s what I have for you…

How I can help

I have set aside some time in the next few days to speak to you personally about how you can apply these ideas to your dealership starting today.

Whatever your biggest challenges are when it comes to growing your car business, I assure you I’ve seen it and I can help. 

We will get on the phone for about 45 minutes. On this session, I will work with you to craft a step-by-step game plan that will allow you to implement the shifts outlined here, and get real measurable results within the next few weeks.

I’ve been able to share with you some different ideas. But the reality is that every dealership is different. You’re different. Your team is different. And so, I have to go in and customize what I’ve taught you today, to your business, so that you can do some great stuff. That’s what we’re going to do on the call.

The cost? Absolutely FREE.

But there’s a catch, this call is not designed for everybody.

Who is this call for?

👉 You must be looking to increase your impact and find ways to thrive in the changing landscape of car sales.

👉 You must be ready to work with your employees in a way that you never have before.

👉 You must be ready to make some deep changes to the way you work.

If that’s you, book a call now.

Why I’m doing this

I do this because I love working with car dealerships to help them achieve their goals.

Plus, I also know that after we speak, you may want my help to transform your business. If so, we can discuss it and see if it’s a good fit for both of us. If not, that’s fine too.

➡️ Schedule your breakthrough strategy call now!

Seven Realizations About Planning

Today I was coaching a spry young and driven project manager of a very successful dealer group and long-time coaching client. We discussed three project plans seeking to improve the processes and remove obstacles to success. This great conversation led me to a lot of reflection on the act of planning itself. I always tell people that coaching without a plan is just therapy. When it comes to achieving results and helping others make them, I’m no spring chicken! I truly began planning while working with high ranking military officials in combat zone mission briefings in the Army. Then I enjoyed planning in a senior-level leadership role in a dealer group. Now, as an executive coach, it’s my job to help sales managers and sales pro’s clarify what they want to accomplish most, understand why it’s important, help them create an action plan to achieve their objective, then care for the plan long term.  As such, I follow up and check-in along the way, sometimes things go great; other times nothing happens at all. This is when masterful coaching comes in. I don’t judge or criticize, I ask them if accomplishing that objective is still essential or if they want to let it go. It’s almost always still vital for them! Then I ask questions to find out what got in the way of their action plan fulfillment. We address the challenge, adjust our plan, and move forward. After having thousands of these conversations, I have come to some simple yet powerful realizations about plans. I share them with you in this article hopes that your plans become as airtight as possible. Regardless I want you to be ready for when they fail because they will, and that’s OK because you’ll fix it! Realization #1 There is no perfect plan because there is no perfect person! There are diminishing returns in over planning; thus, trying to create the perfect plan is a waste of time. I recommend deciding in advance how much time to allow yourself for planning. That will help you stay focused and give you a deadline for getting started. Also, this will help you present yourself and others a little grace and dignity when the plan doesn’t work out perfectly. Because after all, the last perfect person walked the earth 2000 years ago, and you saw what happened to him. Realization #2 Any plan becomes 100% more effective when there is a contingency plan. My special operations team never ran a mission without a primary plan, secondary plan, and tertiary plan. Since failure is always a possibility, you don’t want to be scrambling to create a new plan at the same time. This leads to undue stress, sloppy execution, and poor results when, most of the time, all you needed was a backup plan in the beginning. Realization #3 No plan gets accomplished with no desire, no discipline, and no dedication.  Having a plan without someone wanting to achieve the results from the plan will ensure the plan fails. It’s like giving a four-year-old a plate of steamed okra in hopes of having them eat everything on their plate. They’ll sit there and poke at it with a fork, dump it behind the couch (my kid did that), or maybe try to feed it to the dog. You have to sell the okra, in this case the plan to the parties involved, get the buy-in! Then watch them eat the okra, in this case, check-in on the plan, and continuously remind them of what accomplishing this plan will mean for them. “You’re going to grow tall and strong from eating this delicious slimy green okra!” Realization #4 A plan can only maximize results if the plan is maximized with continuous improvement. Once your plan is underway and you are conducting follow up, checking in, and supporting efforts, this is the opportunity to improve. Things to look for improvement: How can we do this better? How can we do the action items more efficiently? Who else could contribute to these efforts? Are too many resources dedicated to this action item? Is there another step in the plan that doing first would make this step easier? To truly maximize the results of your plan, revisit it throughout, ask those questions and make the adjustments necessary. Realization #5 Increase a plan’s complexity two-fold and decrease its odds of completion tenfold. Complexity in planning would be the bane of my existence if I weren’t self-aware enough to know it’s my issue. Because I love planning and enjoy coordinating many moving parts, it’s easy for me to create unnecessary complexity. A plan needs to be simple to execute and big for impact. “How can a plan be simple yet big?”, you ask. A lot of people focus on one objective, and each person has one or two simple action items or behaviors they are responsible for executing. It’s significant because there are a lot of people involved and it’s simple because each person knows exactly what one or two things they do. Start giving people three or more things to do in their plan and watch the whole thing fall apart. When planning, it’s always better to K.I.S.S. (keep it stupid simple). Check for understanding by asking those involved to repeat their strategy back to you. If you can’t explain it to a third-grader, it’s probably too complicated. Realization #6 A plan’s action items are only as good as the person’s understanding of why, what, when and how to do them. A leader’s biggest frustration is often when their people don’t take action, which leads me to ask some tough coaching questions. I ask things like, “When did you expect them to have that done by?” “Did you give them that expectation?” and “What training and testing did you give them to ensure they could do that?” and “How did you teach them that process?” and “Why is doing it that way so important? Did you explain that to them?” Often the answers to these questions give the leader the clarity that the person they were planning with didn’t have clarity! No plan is complete unless you can answer this question for each part of the project: “Who does what by when and why is it so important?” Another element that makes for a high level of clarity is by writing the plan details down, and ensuring everyone involved reads and signs off on their action items. Realization #7 To avoid an obstacle, you have to know it exists and a silent disagreement is a hidden obstacle. Honest communication is essential to effective planning. If you can’t have an honest dialogue with someone, why the heck are you planning with them in the first place? If someone is “yessing” you to death but not executing on the plan, or if you are picking up on body language that they disagree with the plan, deal with it right now. It’s best to get the disagreement in the open so you can adjust your plan, or help the disagreer get over it. Otherwise, plan on having the same discussion soon while adding frustration in the mix, and higher stakes leading to potential blow-ups. I hope this article on planning makes your work life more successful, enjoyable, and productive! It would be my honor to help you plan your next benchmark to success, so feel free to reach out to my receptionist and schedule a strategy with me at 1-888-921-0221 or email Sean@CarMotivators.com Sincerely, Sean Kelley After leaving US Army Special Operations and serving over two years in combat zone deployments, Sean Kelley #TheCarBizCoach applied those leadership principles to automotive management and successfully led multiple dealerships for over a decade. Sean’s passion for people development led him to become Chief Business Development Officer of DriveCentric CRM, a software company, where he helped them double their annual revenue. As CEO of Car Motivators, Sean works with dozens of dealer groups, automotive tech companies and hundreds of coaching clients across the country. As a writer, Sean’s work and success stories working with his clients have been published in multiple automotive publications. Sean was “Consultant of the Year” in 2018 by Dealership News and ranked #10 in Ambition.com top 100 sales coaches. Sean’s engaging presentations have been featured at conferences like Digital Dealer, Automotive Game Changers, Rockstar Automotive, Canadian Game Changers, SLADA, TIADA, and Driving Sales. Sean’s vision is to positively impact the leadership landscape and culture of the automotive industry by bringing coaching to the car business. Your coaching journey starts here!

Separate Lot Leeches From Vendor Partners With 11 Questions

Dealers and GM’s; I love most of you guys, and I believe you are often being sold a bill of goods by lot leeches. It’s costing you time, money, and resources. It’s putting stress on your entire dealership and making you less efficient. As someone who has logged thousands of coaching hours on both the dealership and vendor side, I have become decent at crafting questions. In this article, I will share some must ask questions you should ask when interviewing these potential vendors. In addition, at the end a three step process for bringing in the right vendor partners. These powerful questions will help you determine if doing business with the potential vendor will lead to better results or brain damage. After reading this, you will be able identify the difference between a lot leech and a dealer vendor partner. This article is also designed to introduce you to some of the best, and brightest dealer vendor partners I have met in our industry! I’ll explain how each of these companies exemplifies the right answer to these questions.

I write this in the absolute sincerest way, when I tell you I am one lucky Irishman for having enjoyed almost two full decades on the showroom floor of a car dealership. The reason this history is important to this article, is because I have been both a tech loving front end user at the dealership level in every variable ops role, as well as a C-Suite executive of a seven-figure automotive technology company. As such, I came to understand both worlds in our amazing automotive industry. Now, as a coach that helps automotive dealers and vendors get a massive return on their technology investments with my unique approach to coaching, people and process development I call D.R.I.V.E.C3 ™ I’ve come to understand what makes vendors an asset instead of an expense to a dealership. I call these assets “vendor dealer partners”. Also, I know what makes a vendor an absolute waste of a dealer’s money. I’ve seen a quite a few end up as the expensive gym set in the basement collecting dust, a real expense. Simultaneously, the dealer has had little or no support and may even be locked into a long term contract on it. I call those vendors “lot leeches”! The questions below are going to help you separate the two and spend your money more wisely.

Dealers and General Managers, I believe you’re so fed up from dealing with lot leeches that you actually miss opportunities to learn from and partner with great vendor partners. The questions below should help you with this challenge by giving you a duplicatable process for teaming up with the right companies.

  1. Can you give me a solid example of when your company put its dealerships ahead of its own well-being?

A lot leech is always looking to feed off dealerships, it needs more dealers to latch onto. A lot leech will add dealers at all costs. Costs often being directly in relation to its current client satisfaction. A dealer vendor partner will look out for customer satisfaction, relationships and stability over adding new clients. DriveCentric is a shining example of this. After coaching my friends at DriveCentric for under a year and seeing some amazing results together, they asked me to be their Chief Business Development Officer. My job was simple, get the sales pipeline flowing again and maintain key accounts. Why? Because they had shut off the faucet, intentionally! When I asked the CEO David Fultz why they had purposefully stopped sales for almost six months, he told me… “When I noticed cracks in the foundation of our ability to provide the best customer service, I had to pause sales. Our loyal customers loving us, and being long-term partners, is more important than adding any new business and always will be.” A true dealer vendor partner will be able to cite examples of when they put their customers before themselves where a lot leech will look at you like a deer in the headlights when asked that question. Imagine the person who brought you into the dealership was conducting unsavory activities or was costing the dealership business or putting them at risk.

  1. Shedding light on it would most certainly get you fired, how would you handle it? Has anything like this happened to you in the past? May I call that dealer to hear more about it?

Once a lot leech has its hooks in you, they will do whatever it takes to remain low key and avoid rocking the boat. They believe attention is bad because the lower they fly under the radar, the less likely you are to notice that blip on your financial statement as an expense. On the contrary, a true dealer vendor partner will state the uncomfortable truth, even at the risk of you kicking them out. Why? Because they believe in candor, integrity, and that only by being honest with you about your shortcomings, can they help you grow and improve. Sean Welsh, the owner of Car Biz Done Better, one of the best examples of an extremely candid and direct dealer vendor partner I can cite, lives by this principle. When he consults with his dealers on their marketing spend, or other areas they invest, he takes this extremely direct approach. “Dealers don’t have time for B.S.,” he says, “They need to hear the truth, and sometimes it needs to smack them in the face so they can understand what their decisions are costing them. I’ve been fired for being honest, and I’m ok with that.” What a shining example of telling people how it is, and I agree with him. Dealers need candor, and smart ones want a vendor partner who will shed light on these blind spots and help prevent them from wasting money… or worse. Check out the Car Biz Done Better podcast to hear some of Sean’s amazing candor.

  1. Who developed your software, systems, processes and what was their track record for success on the showroom floor? Do you have any data, OEM or dealer reports which back that up?

It’s maddening to me to see tools, software or processes designed by people that haven’t lived out life on the showroom floor. NASA doesn’t hire blacksmiths to make space shuttle parts, do they? Lot leeches are often outsiders who pray on the auto space. They come into our world with the mentality that, the car business is broken, and they are going to fix it with their cool new toy that works in a completely different vertical. Therefore, I have the utmost respect for a company like iReconCars and its creator Mike Boyd. iReconCars is a software suite created by a used car guru, for other used car gurus. His software takes into account and addresses the back-end reconditioning and logistical nightmare that is getting your used cars retail ready. They speed up the pace which significantly lowers used car inventory holding costs. With great sales tools and a Carfax partnership; iReconCars, simultaneously helps your sales, BDC team, and website, build value in the reconditioning investment that you’ve made on the vehicle. These keen insights are only possible because Mike Boyd created the software for his used car lot, saw massive results, and took his creation to market. A true vendor dealer partner has the experience, credentials, and track record to back up that their tools work. They lived it out personally!

  1. Can you show us any real world examples where you go the extra mile for your dealers?

A lot leech is hard to reach, not because they are busy working, but because they are taking time off, enjoying those bankers’ hours! One of the things I respect and appreciate most about the great people on the showroom floor in the auto industry is our dedication to the business. Most everyone from the dealer principal down to the sales desk will come in early for meetings, stay late for customers, and forgo time off to help someone on their team reach a bonus at month end. A dealer vendor partner is no different! Two of my favorite people and companies when it comes to working every bit as hard as their dealers are Frank J Lopes #GetMoreFrank Automotive Marketing Rockstar and Jonathan Dawson of Sellchology Sales Training. What do these two fellas have in common? You can find them both working after hours, weekends, and on the last day of the month to do one thing. Bring value to their dealers! Frank J Lopes does this in his free sales Facebook live videos with phenomenal content. Jonathan Dawson does this by selling cars on the showroom floor at month end and in his Facebook Group. Working hard for their dealers, a sign of a true dealer vendor partner.

  1. When and where did you have an opportunity to close a deal, but chose to walk away instead because it wouldn’t have been a good fit for the dealership?

Lot leeches don’t care about a good fit. Lot leeches don’t care if you will use their tool or service after you pay for it. Lot leeches only aim to close the deal and collect a check. This is where I would be wrong if I didn’t mention my own company. While we at Car Motivators try to live by all the principals I have outlined in this article, this is one of our greatest strengths. I attribute this to a great deal of our company’s success. I learned early in my coaching career that you only take on clients that are a good fit for you and for them. I would rather do no business than bad business! This year, our closing ratio is at 71%. I am proud to say we walk away from over 20% of the “closed” deals before they even start. That’s right, we TURN DOWN BUSINESS! This is absolutely unheard of in the automotive vendor world. The reason is that if expectations cannot be met on both sides, working together will not be profitable or enjoyable for either party. The return on the investment from the dealership won’t make sense for them. Our reputation is the most important tool we have. This rule is the reason any of our dealers, sales managers, and employees we coach and develop will sing our praises! This is because we are selective about who we will work with, and we don’t go into a sales engagement with the objective of closing the deal. We go into the interaction with the goal of determining if we are a good fit for them or not. This is why almost ALL of our dealers will refer us to their friends, and why we have even beeen referred to dealers from projects we walked away from! A true vendor dealer partner will have clear expectations of their dealers, find out what yours are, and look for a good fit over a sale. They will voice concerns in advance and ask for yours. If those can’t be addressed they are willing to walk away from a sale. Check out https://carmotivators.com to learn more about our company.

  1. What is the real value, you bring to your users? How does that value bring value to the users’ customers?

The word value is thrown around like rice at a 90’s wedding, especially by lot leeches. While they will say the word, they won’t be able to explain it clearly. One thing I see a ton of value in is video marketing. This is one of the reasons I fell in love with DriveCentric CRM, it has integrated video. Maybe your dealership is in a long CRM contract with one of those lot leech DMS companies! Perhaps they won’t change CRM’s, or maybe your a lone salesperson that wants to add value to your customers’ buying experience with personalized video. If that’s the case, then Co-Video is for you. These guys have the most amazing video software that works for entire businesses, or individual users. The list of awesome features and value these guys bring is ridiculously large, but to name a few: Videos decoded to send in very high quality through any device at lightning fast speeds. They customize the background for your company and brand. They give you customizable links within the video to drive traffic to your website, digital calendar or anything else you want. They give you a screen recording and personal webcam tool to record yourself walking through proposals. The user gets to see where the viewer watches the video, how much of it they watch and what links they click…etc. Bottom line is the value? Make your customers easier to sell through extreme familiarity and give yourself a massive competitive advantage by Interacting with them virtually through video, prior to even meeting them with Co-Video. It’s a game changer and due to their extreme value and excellent customer service, they are the ideal dealer vendor partnership. (or individual partnership!)

  1. Are you in the car business or the people business? Why do you say that?

My biggest concern about selling cars as a green pea car salesperson was that I didn’t know much about cars… When I shared this with my sales manager he said, “We are not in the car business, we are in the people business.” For me, this was a huge relief! After rigorous training in psychology, marketing and influencing people in PSYOP for the military, this got me excited. A lot leech is trying to take people out of the equation altogether. A true automotive vendor partner is all about the people working at the dealership. T4 Marketing and EZ Referral Network is a shining example of a company that is all about the people. In fact, Paul Sansone Jr is not only a dealer principal who is setting records at Nissan with sales in his mawhat each other dorket, but he also is setting records regarding extremely low employee turnover. Paul invests in his people with coaching and training, and beyond that, has built an ingenious marketing platform that helps salespeople build a brand and market themselves on social media. Also, Paul gives his people an integrated app that puts salespeople’s customers on payroll where they are consistently paid for sending referrals to the salesperson at the dealership. Paul’s salespeople don’t often feel the ups and downs of the market, because he has developed them and given them tools that ensure sales stability regardless of anything else. His team is extremely motivated and knows they have a forever career at their dealership. If you want to check out one of his people’s websites, here is the website of Gavin Gatta, a 35+ car phenom’s who is under the T4 marketing umbrella. www.Gattagetacar.com you can also check out the Facebook page of Mark The Pie Guy by searching for “Mark The Pie Guy” on Facebook. Finding him is as easy as apple pie, just like buying a car from him is! To learn more about T4 Marketing and EZ Referral, you can reach out to Paul Sansone Jr, or his right-hand man Christian Serbes “The Pope of Positivity” Here on Linkedin.

  1. There are no perfect tools or systems, so what are three small complaints your customers often have, or have had in the past and what have you done to fix the issues? What is the fine print?

A lot leech doesn’t read you the fine print! You will find out about all the nuances, missed expectations, and downsides after the financial transaction has taken place with a lot leech. Recently Car Motivators connected with an amazing individual named Sodi Hundal from Canada. Sodi reached out because he believed that Car Motivators content, training, and coaching around dealership reward and recognition programs goes perfectly with his product, and we could add value to what each other do. Sodi’s company Odenza offers truly remarkable vacations as sales rewards for dealers. Instead of taking a huge hit on your fair online asking price, throw in a 7 day trip to Mexico, or a 5-day cruise at a much lower expense than taking hundreds off your price. Makes perfect sense right? Before I connected Sodi to one of my dealers he wanted to make sure I understand what each trip did and didn’t come with. He clarified which ones were all inclusive, included travel, or needed a $100 security deposit. This was a sign of a true vendor dealer partner! Someone who is willing to read you the fine print, before you kick off the financial relationship. Thank you Sodi and Odenza for selling with integrity!

  1. What was the last big innovation you made, how did it come about, and what did you aim to accomplish for your dealers in building it?

Technical stagnation, false promises, and development delays! If you’ve ever used automotive technology tools, its safe to say you’ve experienced situations where the software wasn’t upgraded for years. Been through times when the stuff just stops working altogether. Even worst, been promised something would be changed or fixed for you and it didn’t happen at all. Lot leeches work on their tool, processes, or systems until they are good enough to sell, then they stop. Why? Because any development is extremely freaking expensive. Through LinkedIn, I was fortunate enough to meet David Lemmon and his team over at AutoSweet digital marketing. Since I coach a couple dealer groups in their hometown, David and myself agreed to have Car Motivators put on a workshop for their team. Since spending a day with them, learning about their people and products just a few short months ago they have made many innovations to their tools. In fact, it’s clear the profit they turn they reinvest back into their tool. This makes what they do even better for their dealers. Their “sweet” of digital products geared around used car listings on Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist has recently integrated with a video tool and made really cool upgrades to their dashboard. Another mention for Owen Moon of Fixed Ops Digital, who is consistently taking digital marketing to service drives with really cool unique innovations like apple wallet service coupons and dynamic search service websites and more! Keep up the innovations my friends. You are also what I would consider true vendor dealer partner!

  1. What hard data or case study do you have backed by a dealership where you have helped their bottom line, or impacted their results?

Many dealers I speak with complain about SEO marketing when it comes to lot leech frustration! Mostly because of the often vague and seldom concrete tangible evidence that their marketing even works on SEO even works when it comes to digital marketing efforts. Also, because of the lack of effort on the part of the marketing company to help their dealers measure success! To spend so much money and have no clue if its even working or not certainly is a frustration for any business. Enter Reunion Marketing, who takes all the mumbo-jumbo and jargon out of digital marketing, simplifies it, and turns it into metrics and data that dealers can leverage to create actionable changes in their marketing spend. In addition to that, for you to see what is actually improving based on marketing spend decisions is a valuable tool that is exclusive to their company. Self-assessing is often scary because you find out where your flaws are. However, they give you a team of people who work together to constantly improve your marketing and over time, with measurable improvements, you can actually see what your dollars are getting you. Keep up the amazing work and industry leading transparency for a marketing company Reunion Marketing. You guys are absolutely amazing! Also, please let Matthew know, (whom I was lucky enough to be booth neighbors with at DD25), that I hope his beard is growing back well!

  1. Do you practice what you preach? Show me!

Maybe it is my two+ years of combat leadership experience from the Army speaking here, but I believe in the principle that a leader should always lead by example. Lot leeches talk a big game but don’t execute on what it is they say you should do. On the flip side, a dealer vendor partner practices what they preach! They don’t ask you to do something they won’t do themselves. The Next Sale app by Jason Gerasomovic is an ingenious accountability tool, unlike anything I have seen. It helps businesses who aim to market their success and ensure client satisfaction is a top priority increase brand awareness. It gives you processes around all the little things that your employees can do that make a big difference in their results. At the end of the day, Jason applies these same techniques to how he markets his business and his personal brand. This has caused him to add a massive number of dealerships in a short amount of time. In addition to that, his comfort zone is the size of his home state of Florida! He’s been known to put on his purple Captain Next Sale superhero outfit to show his dealers and their employees what being different can do for your business. If you are interested in Next Sale, feel free to reach out to me and I can set you up with a demo at Sean@CarMotivators.com since we are a Next Sale app partner and President of Missouri.

The importance of partnering with the right companies is critical. As such, here is a three step process to doing just that! First, carve out regular time to meet with vendors. If you only do it when one smooth talking enough to get through to you approaches you… you will miss out on the less silver tongued but higher value dealer vendor partners! Second, in addition to a demo, interview them with the questions above. Treat them like you are hiring an employee that you would give access to all your assets to. Finally, conduct a deep reference background check of the vendor before signing on the dotted line. Adding tools, software, marketing or processes can be stressful for your team and disrupt business. You save yourself massive heartache if you ask the questions above, prior to moving forward! Sean Kelley #thecarbizcoach is CEO of Car Motivators https//carmotivators.com and exclusive Vlogger and Blogger for www.dealershipnews.com If you are interested in achieving great results through your people and you want your dealerships to receive a massive return on their technology investment you can contact Sean at Sean@CarMotivators.com

Selling for the Money is Weaker Than Circus Lemonade

It’s interesting when you talk to people in the auto industry about the reasons they are in commissioned sales. When asked, “Why do you do what you do?” The knee-jerk response is often, “For the money”. Of course, money is one of the chief reasons we go to work in the first place. It is also a motivator for most salespeople, to some degree, especially for those of us that have been broke before! While a definite motivator, money is not the best purpose.

I’d argue if sales managers help their people by focusing less on the commission check and more on a deeper purpose, this would ultimately yield more money. Sound unbelievable? Let’s think this through.

Managers, here are three problems with having salespeople selling just for the money. Below each problem is a list of symptoms to help you diagnose if you have salespeople suffering from a money purpose.

1.Money is the result of actions, activity, and attitude. Not the reason a salesperson gets paid.  

There is a link between purpose directly to the actions, reactions, and attitudes which replicate the result time after time. Can money be that purpose? No. Quite the opposite. Think about a profitable sale. It’s almost always a situation where the buyer feels like they are winning because the salesperson did a great job to build value in themselves and their product. When salespeople focus only on the money they need to make, the “sale” is about them, not the customer. Most customers sniff this out, and if you are a lucky enough to sell them once, they won’t be back to see you again.  

Symptoms: Top-earning salespeople at your store may have low customer satisfaction. Sales are transactional: You see little to no repeat or referral business. You are often dealing with customer complaints. People want to return their car, excessive buyer’s remorse. Customers leaving because “I need to think it over.” or “It just doesn’t feel right.”

  1. Money gains have very real diminishing returns on motivation.  

Did you know every state has a money happiness threshold? That is the point at which more money does not create more happiness. This is the margin for diminishing returns when it comes to income. Though not every person has this same threshold, money is a quenchable purpose that, once sated can cause lack of motivation and desire to achieve. 

Symptoms: Salespeople on your team are on an every-other-month roller coaster ride. Salespeople come out swinging, start off strong, then sales taper off the rest of the month. Lackluster motivation from salespeople once they hit their internal money benchmark. You see people on your team kicking back and relaxing after hitting their goal. Salespeople who seem content, even though they aren’t top producers making big money.

  1. Commission structures can and will change.

A myriad of uncontrollable factors can impact your salespeople when it comes to income. Pay plans change, factory spiffs can be dropped, inventory costs fluctuate, market conditions vary and competition may arise. If money is their sole purpose, and one of these uncontrollable changes occur, your salesperson is going to be down in the dumps. They will feel like a victim instead of someone in charge of their own destiny, which is no way to enjoy a career.

If you, as a manager, focus on a better purpose than money, when bad things happen to the pay plan, it will be like water off a duck’s back. In turn, if your salespeople have a greater purpose, working is no longer linked to the pay plan; thus, they won’t feel as much of a sting.

Symptoms: Salespeople freaking out when they have a “mini.” When incentives change or the factory changes spiffs there is doom and gloom in the air. Commissioned salespeople asking for a raise, threatening to quit, or quitting for more money elsewhere.  

Managers, hopefully, you can now see the problems associated with selling just for the money. You might even recognize some of these symptoms yourself. 

On the other hand, if you’re still convinced that the hunger for higher commissions is the best motivator, then I challenge you to think about your long-term selling strategy. How will your dealership compensate as customers can simply buy from websites where cars are dropped in their driveways? How will you build your dealership after a massive product recall? Chasing the dollar is not a sustainable, long-term plan.

As a sales manager, when I focused on selling more units and making more gross I did well and so did my salespeople. Yet, only after realizing my greater purpose, and helping my salespeople discover their greater purpose, did we reach extreme success as a team. I am happy to share that purpose with any that ask, as well as the absolutely amazing results from this cultural shift.  

Upgrading the purpose of your salespeople isn’t as difficult as you may think! It just takes a few questions with each individual to really help them identify their better purpose. 

Step 1. Discover Individual Purpose 

Ask yourself, and each member of your sales team, the following questions:

If you had unlimited money, what would you do with it? 

Define your brand for me. 

What would it mean to you if you accomplish your financial goals working here? How would you feel? 

Why is accomplishing financial success important to you? 

Imagine you’re 90 years old and your local newspaper writes an article about your career, what do you want it to say? 

If your next customer tweeted about your level of service and every single buyer in our market would read it, what would you want to be known for? 

If your sales team wrote a biography about you, what would you want to be remembered for in your book? 

Step 2: Build a Team Purpose:  

Next, think about your team and ask these questions:

What can you and your team strive for as a group next year? 

What group reward or recognition would be most impactful to your team and what could everyone do to earn it? 

Thinking big, what can you do to align the entire team behind a common cause? 

Step 3: Reinforce the Purpose: 

It will take long-term commitment to ensure this becomes the new norm for each employee and the team as a whole. Do so with the following questions:

Your purpose is “X.” Did you fulfill that purpose with that last customer engagement? 

How do you feel about your efforts toward your purpose today? 

Are you consistently living your values in order to reach your purpose?

Is working towards your new purpose more rewarding?

By asking the questions above you may find some pretty damn amazing purposes. To list a few that I have heard: “I want to be able to take care of my single mother.” “I want my kids to be happy.” “I want to do so well for my customers, that they never think of going to anyone but me for a car.” “If we can hit 4000 units as a team, we will set records never before accomplished in our dealership or market.” “I want to prevent the companies like Carvana from replacing car salespeople by doing an amazing job with every customer.” “I want to help people with the same credit and financial challenges I had, get a great car. One that they actually enjoy driving, and gives them a chance to rebuild their credit.” “I want to live stress-free knowing I have a sustainable career that continues to grow due to my customer retention.” “I want to be known as the most professional and skilled sales person the dealership has ever had.”

Now you have uncovered a better, deeper purpose for each of your team members. One that will actually drive results and enhance your employees’ selling experience, as well as your customers buying experience. You may begin to notice a little more hop in your employees step as they interact with customers. Your buyers may seem a little happier as they leave with their new vehicles.

Once reinforcing the purpose for each salesperson becomes a habit, you may notice the morale of your salespeople improves. Regardless of market conditions and other noncontrollable challenges, they still seem inspired. Your buyers will remember the purchase and will more apt to come back again or offer family, friends, and referrals when asked. Your reputation both with the OEM surveys, on the street, and online will likely start to improve. Their purpose isn’t all about the money anymore, it’s stronger and more meaningful.

Do yourself, your employees and our entire industry a favor and help everyone find a purpose. A reason for selling cars that is less fickle than cash. Link the purpose to the behaviors that lead to success with a reason for selling even more unquenchable than the thirst for money. In doing so, you can massively increase your own production and that of every single member of your sales team. Your team will also feel a greater reward for the work they do. I wish you the best in helping each salesperson of your team find this new purpose! 

This is an excerpt from an upcoming book on sales and leadership by Sean Kelley. Sean #thecarbizcoach has successfully managed dealers for a decade, drastically lowering employee turnover and increased profits, customer retention, and client satisfaction. Sean helps dealers achieve great results through their people and technology with a unique approach to coaching and people development. To experience the same results, contact Sean Kelley at Sean@carmotivators.com or Get Started For FREE With Coach Chat DriveCoaching.us  

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Sales Managers: Shoot the Messenger, Shoot Yourself In the Foot!

If you’re a sales manager, every day your sales staff line up to bring you news of their success, failures, conquests, and exploits. Sometimes they bring great news, excitedly proclaiming,”The clients just signed, we made a deal!” High fives, words of affirmation and celebration, everyone rejoices in the success of the moment. It is simple to react in the proper way when everything is going your way.

On the contrary, there are times when the message from your sales representative is less than favorable, “Boss I can’t get them to sign, they are going to walk away from the deal.” Certainly, news like this can be frustrating for a sales manager. After spending so much time helping to manage the deal, then to have your sales person lose control like this? Getting angry or frustrated with your salesperson may be your first instinct; however, you need to know that your gut reaction to say something rude, sarcastic or angry, can cost you a lot more than one lost sale. So in situations like this, what is the best thing to do? How do you work to save the deal, correct the issues at hand without brow beating your employees?

Put yourself in the shoes of your salesperson. They probably wanted the sale as much if not more than you! Even top notch sales people with the best attitudes may feel down and out when the loss of a sale occurs. Do you think your sales person wanted to let you, their sales manager, down intentionally? Did they want to look bad in the eyes of their peers by losing a sale? Did they want to flush that commission down the toilet intentionally? Ask yourself this, how do YOU feel when you let your boss down? When you make a mistake, how do you want to be treated by your supervisor? More on this later, for now, bite your tongue!

First things first, attempt to save the deal. You probably need time to cool off before correcting your sales person properly. Speaking with the would be client will allow you this time. Also, more importantly, you can NOT correct your staff member and coach them if you don’t know WHY the potential buyer is backing out. At this point in the deal, you may believe you know why the customer is leaving without buying. In reality, until you ask the client, your only making an assumption. Corrective action based on emotion and assumptions? Sounds like a recipe for a frustrated sales person, who doesn’t learn what they need in order to improve, as well as a loss of respect to their manager to me!

Go talk to the client or customers without your sales person present, this will allow them an easier time opening up or giving you feedback on your staff member. Ask them how their experience was right off the bat. They may give you subtle clues about what went wrong, or why they are leaving. Pay close attention to their body language. Are they actually listening and providing honest feedback or are they just running out the door? Ask permission to follow up with them, find out how and when they prefer to be contacted. This will cause them to not feel as if you are holding them hostage as well as give you a time frame on their purchase. If they don’t want you to reach out to them, something may have gone seriously wrong. If they won’t provide any real reasons or objections for you to work with, ask permission to probe deeper. Something along the lines of, “Mr Customer, at the risk of sounding pushy or high pressure, may I ask you a serious question?” Once they say yes, throw it out there, “What is the ONE thing keeping you from making a decision today?” In this way you may uncover the main objection without making the client angry at you for being nosy. They did after all, give you permission to ask the question! Once you have tried your best to overcome the objections, save the sale, and you have cooled off you can move forward. Now that you know the REAL reason the customer did not buy, and your customer is not present, NOW is the time to coach and train your salesperson.

Again, don’t shoot the messenger, your employee was just relaying the clients message. This message is probably an answer to your associates presentation or the manner in which you directed the sale as the manager. You did in fact train your sales person to sell for you right? You as the manager, must accept some responsibility for what has happens in a sale, both good or bad! Let your sales person know that you are on their team, that you want them to sell too as many clients as possible because their success is your success. In this way they will not put up a defensive barrier which will limit their listening. Next, ask your sales person if THEY know why the customer had left. There is no point in “beating a dead horse.” Your employee may already know the mistakes that were made, if they hit the nail on the head and tell you the correct reason the sale was lost, then kudos to them. Your next question should be, “What will you do next time to produce a better result?” Then hold them accountable for their commitment the next time they are in a similar situation so history does not repeat itself. If their “reason” for the lost sale is not the actual reason the customer left, now it’s your turn to point out what they missed, the opportunity lost, and what it would mean for them if they correct the shortcoming moving forward. If as a sales manager you adopt this method of personnel development, your staff will respect you for such resolve. They will always seek to grow with you, and will believe that you really do have their backs.

In review, the short term damage to you, your client, and team member for “shooting the messenger.” Are very serious and destructive. First and foremost you look insecure, weak and unconfident: all poor leadership qualities. If the customer hears what’s going on you may easily offend them and will have no hope of saving the deal. Second, you do not find out what the sales associate needs actual training or coaching on, so they never get better at selling. You create a fear in your employee to approach their manager in any undesirable situation, which is when they need you the most. The next time something’s going south, do you think they are going to tell you about it? Even IF you know the real reason the sale was lost, your behavior will have caused your staff member to shut down and not listen to you and improvement cannot take place.

Long term damage of shooting the messenger, is high employee turnover. The only sales people that will stick around to work with you are ones that like abuse. More unnecessary lost sales will occur, due to the assumptive corrective action that isn’t solving the real gap in the salespersons behaviors, attitudes or presentation. As well as you gaining a reputation for leading by irrationality and emotion, which is not a reputation you want in a leadership role. A true test of a leader is the ability to stay cool and react appropriately, especially when things don’t go your way. Stay calm, talk to the client, and lastly coach your staff member. Always remember, if you’re a shoot the messenger type of leader, your shooting yourself in the foot!

About Sean Kelley

Sean works with car dealers to achieve great results through their people and technology. Sean has extensive diversity in leadership ranging from Special Ops combat veteran, general sales manager, company owner, and a tech company executive. Sean will help your people find purpose, create a growth mindset, improve self-accountability and effectively develop your teams through his unique, customized approach to coaching. If you are interested in exceeding your goals and building an inspirational leadership team, email Sean directly: Sean@carmotivators.com or Get Started For FREE With Coach Chat

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